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Advice #52: Does Blogging & Self-Promotion Make Me Vain?

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Hello, I’m wondering if you ever struggle with vanity. To run a blog like your own calls for a great deal of what they call shameless self promotion and self preoccupation. I am basically very generous person and I have a thirst to serve others with my presentation skills and other solution-driven aspects of my personality. The biggest struggle I’m trying to get over is allowing my own brand to be the outlet of all my creative gifts. It’s so hard because it feels so vain to me. I was just wondering if you’ve ever struggled with this?


I used to feel this way as well, so strongly in fact that I was afraid to start a blog on my own domain. It tripped me up for a long time but one conversation changed all that.

From 2001 to 2007, I blogged on Live Journal. Around 2007, I became more aware of my friends (including Gala) making the leap from Live Journal to their own domains. I liked what I saw but I wasn’t sure that was a good move for me. I had the mindset that if I wanted to be taken seriously as a designer, my website should feature only my portfolio. If I shared the rest of who I was, including photos and insights into what I was wearing, were I lived and what I did outside of designing, it would deflect from my work.

But I naturally like to share. And I’m more than just my job — I have other interests. Why should you or I feel shame in sharing what we like?

My turning point came during the Summer of 2007 when I was on a trip to LA. I met up with Star and spilled my worries out at a Coffee Bean in Hollywood. She assured me that things were quickly changing — sure, the established designers didn’t need to blog, they were already established! But the up and comers could benefit from social media and I should just go for it. Trust me, I was still scared but I just did it. A month after that fateful talk, my blog went live.

The shift from that decision happened fast. Within my first year of blogging, I was being approached by clients including Forever 21 and receiving multiple freelance inquiries a week. Sometimes, I still felt unsure though. I’m a pretty humble, modest person and putting myself out there day in and day out felt tiring at times. There were definitely days when I just wanted to design and go about my business and not be bothered! But I knew that if I quit, rebuilding momentum would be incredibly hard. So I kept on and I’m so thankful I did.

Blogging isn’t easy. Designers by nature tend to lurk in the shadows. I’ve never wanted to dance, act, sing or be in the mainstream spotlight. I’ve just wanted to be the best designer and blogger I could be. And if putting myself out there helps to support my business but even more importantly helps me connect with other creatives, I’ll continue to do so.

With blogging, there’s occasionally some bad mixed in with the good but overall, I wouldn’t change a thing. The friends I’ve made, the places I’ve gotten to travel and the thoughts, images and insights I’ve gotten to share with you, the readers, are priceless in a way. Blogging has made my life much more full and given me much needed structure.

Think of your brand this way: if you don’t believe in it, nobody else will. People are always going to judge you no matter what, whether you choose to put yourself out there or not. It’s human nature. Remember that truly successful people are fearless and promote what they value and believe in, even if that’s their own brand. That’s your choice and yours alone.

Ask Nubby #40: How Do I Get My Blog Noticed?

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I’m currently working as a graphic designer and have completed schooling. The one thing I have however not been able to master is the power of the blog. I enjoy blogging, but I just can’t seem to find the proper balance to get people into reading it. What would you suggest is the most effective way to bring readers into my blog? Am I simply boring, or am I lacking a key factor?


The truth is that getting your blog noticed is a lot harder than it was a few years ago when there was a lot less competition out there. When I relaunched my website in a blog format in 2007, there was so much less saturation! And, there definitely weren’t nearly as many bloggers who were able to sustain a full-time living from their sites. But now that companies have realized the power of having real people pitching their products, bloggers have gained a powerful foothold into a number of industries (along with the advertising dollars). So, what can you do to stand out?


1. Consistency, consistency, consistency.

Of course it’s not necessary to blog every day — we all have varying amounts of time to contribute to our blogs. But, if you’re really serious about blogging and building an audience, keep a regular schedule that works for you. Is your goal to post once a week? Three times a week? Whatever your schedule, once you’ve been posting for awhile, readers begin to anticipate content at semi-regular intervals. If you need to take an extended break, make a note of it so that your readers know what to expect (instead of thinking that you’ve quite suddenly fallen off the face of the earth).

Think about consistency this way: Would you repeatedly frequent a business that was constantly closed without notice or, after a few tries, would you eventually give up? If your blog isn’t your business or livelihood, feel free to ignore this advice. If it is, you’ve got to be fiercely committed and goal driven if you want it to get noticed. Consistency counts because it builds a sense of reader loyalty.


2. Authenticity Rules Supreme.

When you’re first starting out and offers of freebies and other goodies start rolling in, make sure that you’re comfortable with the trade-off. What does the company want in return? If you don’t believe in a product, don’t share it with your readers under any circumstances. People can sense something fishy a million miles a way, even when it’s hidden behind a computer screen. Never, ever compromise your values or the pocket books of your readers. Ethics are a slippery slope, especially in blogging. Once you lose credibility, it’s a tough climb back to the top.

How do you stay authentic? Only share content that you wholeheartedly believe in. Use your unique voice and share experiences, advice and visions that are uniquely your own. Just be you.


3. Always take the high road.

Not everyone is going to understand or believe in what you’re doing. That’s how life is sometimes but it’s important to stay strong and to not give into unnecessary negativity. On the other hand, blogging, like any other profession can become seductive once a level of success sets in. It’s up to you to not lose touch with your readers. We’re all busy but do what you can, when you can. Don’t lose sight of what you’ve set out to do. Hold yourself and the content that you’re producing to the highest possible standards.


4. Share links and build your audience in the process.

No matter how established other bloggers out there are, everyone appreciates it when someone takes the time to link to their content. Producing original content can take some serious time and dedication and it’s a great feeling knowing that other bloggers like it enough to share it with their readers. If you continually share links to content of other bloggers, they will take notice and maybe even return the favor!


5. Use other platforms to your advantage.

When you’re starting out, it’s important to get the word out. To build momentum, pick a handful of platforms that you believe in. Depending on your focus, Twitter, Facebook and Google+ (along with dozens more) can help you reach new readers. If viewers like what they see, they can click through and check out your blog. It’s honest and organic. Don’t spam other blogs with generic comments. Instead, if you choose to leave a comment, be sincere and heartfelt – the chances of someone clicking through are much more likely!

I keep my self-imposed social media plan very simple on a daily basis. It goes like this:

Immediately after posting, I share a link to my article on Facebook, Twitter and Google+ as well as posting the article photos to Flickr. That’s it. If I had more time, I’d definitely use Tumblr as well but I’d want the content to be unique from what I was already posting on my blog. The five minutes I do spend spreading the word each day definitely contributes to my traffic. Bonus tip: services like Twitterfeed can automatically ping Twitter and Facebook with a link to your blog’s updates!


6. Knowledge is power. Share what you know.

How can you gain the adoration and respect of new followers? Open up and share. We all possess a well of knowledge and have something that makes us unique. By allowing others to learn from us, our human connections grow and so does the quality of our blog’s content. For instance, my passion is design and I enjoy sharing what I’ve learned through schooling, internships and client work. There’s so much insight that I’ve gained over the years through rebuilding my portfolio a million times, freelancing at agencies and learning how to get organized in the process. By sharing my personal experiences, hopefully someone else’s path will be smoother than mine was. Life experience is infinitely valuable and if we can help or inspire someone else, why not share it?


7. Produce original content.

This ties into sharing what you know. While some blogs thrive on the republishing of images and content of others, the easiest way to stand apart from the competition is to produce content that is uniquely your own. Shoot as many of your own photos as possible. Customize what you already have with fonts, photo filters and handwriting. Step away from the computer and experience life and then share what you’ve learned with your readers. Give them something that they can’t find anywhere else.


8. Keep your head up. It’s a long, winding road.

I started blogging at full capacity over four years ago when I was getting ready to start a design program, working a full-time retail job and living with many roommates. My life was much different then but blogging gave me a sense of structure through many uneasy transitions. It was a welcome outlet as I learned about design, traveled extensively, graduated and began working full-time as a designer. Along the way, my life completely shifted from being unfulfilling to working every day doing what I love and being settled in my own house with a wonderful husband and dog. Along the way, I never lost sight of my goals. At first, I just wanted 25,000 unique visitors a month. Then, 50,000. Then 75,000 and so on. I didn’t set lofty, unattainable goals but instead built momentum, slowly but surely. With the schedule I kept through school, I usually had to be up by 6:30 in the morning, putting a post together but it didn’t deter me because I really loved blogging.


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Source: Jasper James Photography.


Finally, don’t wait.

I’ve said this so many times before but it bears repeating! Even if you don’t have tons of readers, keep on blogging. Each post is an exercise in your growth as a writer and communicator. Many of the great bloggers that you admire have been chipping away at their craft for years and the quality of their posts has grown with practice. It’s okay to feel discouraged some days (we all do) but don’t give up. Set some realistic goals, ask yourself what purpose you’d like your blog to serve and build it, one reader at a time. Don’t make the process more difficult than it has to be. Just stay true to what you’ve set out to do. Good luck!


The Tale of GoDaddy, Ukranian Hackers and One WordPress Blog

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I know that some of you use GoDaddy.com for your server space and to register your domain names. I want to let you know of some recent issues I had with my hosting so that you can hopefully avoid a similar fate.


From 2003 until about two months ago, I’d been extremely satisfied with my GoDaddy services. Not only were their rates reasonable but they had fantastic, LIVE customer service that was always willing to help.

That all changed quite suddenly about two months ago. One day, I began receiving concerned emails and texts from visitors to my blog stating that they were being redirected to potentially malicious third party websites when clicking in. I couldn’t see the issue on my end and I hadn’t made any changes to my files so I was completely unaware of what was happening. Luckily, two of my web-savvy developer friends came to the rescue and in less than an hour, they had diagnosed the issue (and fixed over 300 infected files). I was back up and running smoothly and that was the end of the issue. Or, so I thought.

On my end, I’d made a few key mistakes as a blogger. Firstly, I’d used nearly identical passwords to log into my FTP client, WordPress platform and GoDaddy account. Secondly, I hadn’t been regularly upgrading my WordPress software. I actually preferred the way an older version I was running looked, not realizing that as time goes on, hackers figure out holes in security and can compromise your site (each upgraded version contains major improvements and fix). Thirdly, while I was dilligently backing up the files on my server, I didn’t realize that another, equally important backup should be taking place — the WordPress database backup.

After making all of these changes, I was feeling pretty good (and safe). And, then the compromise happened again. And, unbelievably, AGAIN. Three times in less than a month!

I was dumbfounded. My passwords were now so ridiculous and long that I had to keep a list. My software was all upgraded to the latest versions. I couldn’t figure out what I was ‘doing wrong.’ After some digging, my developers had some information — my site was being compromised by a Ukranian hacker who had found a way in through my shared server space. When you buy the cheapest option from a lot of providers, you’re thrown into a heap with a bunch of other users. Someone was infecting sites on my shared server but interestingly enough, they weren’t erasing all of our files. What they wanted was far more valuable — our traffic. My site receives a few thousand visitors a day and the hackers wanted that built-in audience to visit THEIR site.

Once we had pinpointed the issue, I called GoDaddy. Though customer service was friendly, they didn’t offer any solutions that were particularly helpful (and buying dedicated server space is very expensive and not a necessity for my level of traffic at this point). I flat out asked them if they were familiar with the compromised server issue and they admitted that it ‘was a possibility.’ Yet, there didn’t seem to be any fixes in place. At this point, I was so fed up that I didn’t push it — I could tell that it wasn’t going to get solved. And, I wasn’t about to let it happen again. I understand that compromises in security happen, even to the best companies. But the same issue three times?! Surely, I wasn’t the only victim and they had to know about this.

According to Kimberly Castleberry:

It appears that someone took a botnet…and using a vulnerability that exists between WordPress and the Host (GoDaddy), is attacking every single blog/site that lives on GoDaddy’s servers. This round of infections appears to be unique to an exploit on GoDaddy.

By this point, I was sick of the headaches, the loss of traffic to my business and constantly having to readdress the same problem. I decided to get rid of a big chunk of my issue altogether — after upgrading all of my software, I moved my site over to DreamHost upon the recommendation of my web-savvy friends. And, I am about a million times happier. The user interface is much easier to use and the site doesn’t bombard me with a pile of affiliate products and services I don’t want or need. Thank you, DreamHost!

A Few Key Things You Should Do to Stay Safe


1. Use a different password for each of your accounts. Yes, this is a huge pain but totally worth it.

2. Always keep your blogging software upgraded to the latest version. In newer versions of Wordrpess, there’s a one button backup that takes care of it for you. Couldn’t be easier!

3. Use an SFTP client to upload content to your site as it’s much more secure.

4. Take the time to back up ‘both sets’ of your files — the content on your sever as well as your WordPress database which contains all of your posts, comments and the general formatting of your blog.

The Bottom Line


If you’re wanting to register a domain name quickly and at a great price, GoDaddy is fine. For hosting, especially for your blog, I would recommend looking elsewhere. Stay safe and happy blogging!


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WordPress Database: Back it Up!

Disclaimer: This isn’t the sexiest, most glamorous post but it’s an important one. Most of you WordPress users are probably already familiar with performing a WordPress Database Backup but if I can save just one person out there the misery of losing all of their beloved content, then so be it!

If you’ve been blogging long enough, common sense tells you to back up all of the content on your server including photos on a regular basis. For years, I’ve been religiously doing this. BUT! Amazingly enough, I didn’t realize that I was supposed to be doing a SECOND, equally important backup until quite recently.

If you use the WordPress platform (such as I do), your WordPress Database contains all of your posts, comments, and links. In essence, it’s the content that gives your blog its unique format. A database backup may be the only saving grace if you ever install a bad plugin, have an upgrade go terribly wrong or get stricken by hackers. It’s better to be safe than sorry!

Conveniently enough, a a free plugin can do all of the work for you. To use it, simply download the plugin, upload it to your plugins folder on your server and activate it.

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Next, go to the Tools tab in the left column of your dashboard and click on Backup.

Once you’re in the Backup Options screen, scroll down and click on Download to your computer. It will do the rest!

Once you have a full backup, I would recommend scheduling regular backups from now on. Scroll down to Scheduled Backup and click the frequency (I do once a week) and make sure your correct email is on file.

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Now, you can have peace of mind knowing that all of your hard work is tidily zipped for safekeeping.


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Ask Nubby #27: Should I Separate My Blog and Portfolio?

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This is a tricky situation! I think about this all the time – as I am sure that most designers do. Blogging for many of us is a creative outlet and often, our personal lives and opinions cross over into the content. The truth is, though I’ve been blogging in some form since 2001, I was very aprehensive at first when I was considering relaunching Nubbytwiglet.com as a blog format in 2007. My web designer friend Star had just turned her website into a blog and though I loved it, I wasn’t sure that it was the right approach for me.

Up until that point, I’d noticed that most designers seemed to lurk in the shadows; they let their work do the talking and often, they didn’t even have a photo of themselves on their About page. To me, they came across as mysterious. When I asked Star about this, she basically said that I was looking at the way the ‘old guard’ did things; the designers of the future were going to jump on the social media bandwagon. I took her advice and began blogging on my domain in August of 2007.

When it comes to content, what I soon realized is that as someone who likes to update my blog at least five days a week, it’s nearly impossible to develop design-related posts every day. Breaking up the schedule with outfit photos and links helps with the rountine. And, it’s good to remember that not everyone is going to be interested in design. Some of my readers may be intrigued by style, the city in which I live or even shoes. By adding in a more diverse variety of content that extends beyond just design, I am widening the net of potential readers.

Sometimes, posting photos of my new shoes or house make me think twice because first and foremost, I consider myself to be a designer. I don’t want to dilute what I do for a living. But, at the end of the day, I’m not going to censor who I am. I like to post about things that make me excited and that have the potential to inspire my readers.

I’ve always wanted to be bigger than just a designer, if that makes sense. I strive to be a personality, an information source and a brand. Eventually, I want to tour schools, write a book about marketing for designers and teach students about freelancing and building portfolios. If people don’t like me based on what I post, that’s okay. We are all human and entitled to our opinions. I’m not going to pretend to not have a personality because I think it will help me get more work. To me, being authentic and staying true to what I love is much more important. When it comes to social media, the saying is that content is king. If that’s the case, then authenticity should be its equal.

My point is, use common sense about what you’re posting…but stay true to who you are. Readers can sense authenticity a mile away. Reach out – it’s okay to share your work and experiences with your readers. By offering other content besides just my portfolio, I am able to connect with more readers. And someday, those readers might need my services. Overall, people like knowing that there’s a person behind all that work!

I should mention that my outlook on sharing may differ compared to other designers because I’ve worked at companies where blogging and social media were encouraged. During my time at Nemo HQ, I was mentored by Dave Allen (now running Fight) who not only blogged constantly but was always at the forefront of social media trends. Nemo was never afraid to share what went on behind its walls and it only added to the cool factor.

As a designer and a blogger, take into account that the more you share, the more assumptions people will develop about you and your life. You’ve got to have a thick skin because not every comment or email will be friendly. But, that’s life. Nobody (except perhaps Mother Theresa) is universally loved by everyone! If you feel like sharing, then share. Just don’t overshare. Though I do a Week in Pictures post, it’s more of an overview of a week in my life. I don’t detail every little thing that went wrong, every meeting I went to or expose sensitive client work.

Sharing is an amazing thing – it has the potential to inspire and influence. On the other hand, I know plenty of designers that choose to keep the focus 100% on their work. They’re not comfortable sharing their personal lives and that is fine as well. I say, do what you’re comfortable with and what makes you happy. Share as little or as much as you like. It’s as simple as that.

Readers: What are your opinions on sharing? How much or how little do you share? Do you think it affects the perceptions of a designer’s work?





Thoughts On Blogging

Lately, I’ve been getting asked a lot of blogging-related questions so today I’m going to share some insight and advice on how to get noticed and a few of the steps it takes to build a solid blog. Please feel free to leave a comment if you have more specific questions!


In The Beginning: Nubbytwiglet.com, Fall 2007

Blogging isn’t easy. Though the internet is overflowing with how-to articles and more advice than anyone needs, the truth is that there’s not a proven formula to gaining notoriety. Rather, here are some concepts to consider, whether you’re new to blogging or have been at it for years:


If you’re seeking a massive readership, you’ve got a long road ahead of you, considering that there are over 100 million blogs out there.

With many niches already at saturation point, the one thing that you can do to stand out from your competition is to offer a unique perspective. How? Start by simply asking yourself “What makes my perspective unique and interesting?” You should be able to easily rattle off a list of ways that your blog differs from its nearest competitors. This cannot be stressed enough. If you’re presenting a carbon copy of someone else’s theme, personal style, voice and aesthetics, it can be a huge turn-off and readers will usually default back to the originator.

When making a list of what encapsulates your unique perspective, it can be super simple or totally outlandish. It may be as straightforward as finding your unique voice. Do you have an uncanny knack for ‘keeping it real’ that people admire? Or, maybe you have an awe-inspiring job (International Playgirl, anyone?). What about an amazing collection of shoes? Or, perhaps you possess a treasure trove of thousands of MP3s and an inside look at the music business. Play up your uniqueness and make the most of what you’ve got.


Blog because you’re passionate about your subject matter and about sharing what you know. Blogging for the sole purpose of gains (monetary and otherwise) won’t get you very far. To receive whatever it is that you’re after, it’s only fair that you’re willing to give something in return. Being completely self-absorbed and not offering your readers anything of genuine value will get old fast.

What can you give? Consider sharing advice about your profession or how to earn an education in a similar field as your own. Maybe you’re skilled at painting, drawing, knitting or another hobby and can share the outcomes of your projects along with tutorials. Do you possess a unique fashion sense? Share it with the world and inspire people as they’re getting dressed in the morning! Are you a brilliant writer? Share your experiences and offer your readers advice.


Besides offering content that no one else has, unique columns also add structure to your blog. If you keep a regular schedule, it helps readers to know what to expect on certain days. I’ve developed quite a few including The Typofiles (Tuesdays), Ask Nubby (occasional Wednesdays), What I Wore (twice a week), Link Love (Thursdays), The Week In Pictures (Fridays) and more that are all listed here.


Post content at regular intervals (but don’t post just because). Figure out a schedule that works for you and your lifestyle. Personally, I am happy with posting five to six days a week, but if three times a week works for you, that is fine. Be relentless with the schedule that you set for yourself. Posting a week straight and then disappearing for a month without a mention of why comes across as flaky and makes you seem undependable. We all get busy and we all have lives to live. The bottom line is this: don’t set yourself up for an unrealistic schedule that you can’t keep. Set your expectations while keeping time constraints and other commitments in mind.


Share what you love and always remember to link to it. Giving link love is one of the best ways to support those you admire while gaining authority from other blogs that share your links.


I know so many people that want to blog, but are holding out until their theme is perfect, until their prewritten articles have reached a certain number and until they’ve gotten their niche and elevator pitch perfectly crafted. While preparation is great, perfection is impossible. Waiting isn’t doing you any favors. Think of the content and amount of readers that you would have now if your blog had gone live in its imperfect state six months ago. Two years into Nubbytwiglet.com, I’m still making tiny changes on weekly basis. And, there’s still so much to do. Embrace the imperfect nature of digital content. It’s constantly shifting and growing and that’s what makes it fun to watch.


Two years into blogging five times a week, some days are still a struggle. There will be days where a post that you spent hours meticulously crafting barely receives any comments. There will be instances when you wonder if the time and energy you’ve committed is even worth it. Sometimes, you will feel as if your inspiration has been sapped dry. Then one day, when you least expect it, things will just click. It took me a year of regular blogging before my stats spiked and freelance and advertising offers began rolling in. It’s all about perseverance and dedication.

One of the coolest parts about blogging is to see a blog grow and change with a person. When I first started blogging, I was a full-time design student sharing my projects and vacation photos. The blog has continued on through multiple jobs, internships, business endeavors and freelance gigs. And, it is still a constant reminder of not only where I’ve been but where I’m going. Follow through with your blogging plan and refuse to give up, even when things get tough. People will notice. And, you’ll eventually be rewarded in ways that you cannot even imagine right now.




The Cultivation of Online Personas

Is your avatar a less than accurate representation of your real life self?

With your online representation, you get to decide which photos you’d like to upload, who you’d like to friend and which bands and movies to claim as your favorites. In a way, you get to cultivate a persona that may (or may not) mesh with your real self. You get to decide what content you’d like to add, modify and delete.

In Sharing is Creepy, Nicholas Carr says that:

Your online self … is entirely self-created, and because it determines your identity and social standing in an internet community, each decision you make about how you portray yourself…is fraught, subtly or not, with a kind of existential danger.

Carr claims that there’s an inherent arrogance to sharing so many details of your life with total strangers. In some ways, he says that it has a sadomasochistic quality because the exchange can become similar to that of a celebrity and a fan. And, when you think about it, there are a group of “A-listers” for almost every blogging niche imaginable.

Another factor that plays prominently in the cultivation of an online persona is guilt. In The Burden of Twitter, Steven Levy says:

Guilty. I feel guilty that I have a blog and haven’t contributed to it for seven months. Guilty that all my pals on Facebook post cool pictures, while the last shots I uploaded were of Fourth of July fireworks—from 2007. Guilty that I haven’t Dugg anything since, well, ever.

It seems odd that one would feel guilt, not out of something they did or didn’t do in real life, but because they didn’t contribute enough to their social networking activities. But, if you blog, tweet or visit multiple social networking sites regularly, there can be a sense of not being connected if you can’t log in to deliver regular doses of content.

Though, Levy’s guilt of not contributing enough can easily flip when he finally does log into these multiple platforms to update.

The more I upload the details of my existence, even in the form of random observations and casual location updates, the more I worry about giving away too much,” he says. “It’s one thing to share intimacies person- to-person. But with a community? Creepy.

He has a valid point. Do we spill all these details (sometimes overly personal) to other random strangers that we know in real life? Do you wax poetic about your new shoes to the mailman? Do you tell the person occupying the seat next to you on the bus about your hot date last night? Probably not. So, what compels you to dish out these voyeuristic glimpses into your life online?

It’s human nature to want to share what interests us. At the same time, we enjoy tiny glimpses into the lives of others who may have talents, personalities (or a hot pair of shoes) that we admire.

The bottom line with social networking is that you’re responsible for what you decide to share online. You have the freedom to choose as little or as much about yourself as you’d like. As sociologist Duncan Watts notes, “Now everyone is used to the idea that we are connected [through the internet], and that’s not so interesting. If I had to guess why sites like Facebook are so popular, I would say it doesn’t have anything to do with networking at all. It’s voyeurism and exhibitionism.”

Do you feel that your online activity accurately represents you? Or, is it a cultivated persona? Is this a conscious decision that you’ve made?




Choosing Your Blogging Master Minds

Blogging is a constant learning process. At some point, you may be asking yourself which niche topics you should focus your energy on, what columns to feature and whether or not you should embrace advertising. It’s nearly impossible to have an answer to every situation that arises, especially since many in blogging are highly subjective. So, how do you figure out what to do?

You could spend all of your free time conducting research, but there’s a much more efficient way to acquire the knowledge that you’re in search of. In Napoleon Hill’s classic self help & business book, Think and Grow Rich, one of the core principles of success revolves around the power of the Master Mind.

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The Master Mind is defined as:

The coordination of knowledge and effort, in spirit of harmony, between two or more people, for the attainment of a definite purpose.

How does this relate to blogging? If you want to be a successful blogger (measurable in your own terms), surround yourself with other successful bloggers that you admire and trust. Ask yourself: Who has a vast knowledge base in areas that you want to learn more about? Who has a writing style that you admire? Who do you think that you could get along with in real life? Who would be willing to help you succeed, no matter what?

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There are two characteristics of the Master Mind principle, as outlined in Think & Grow Rich:

a. Economic: Economic advantages can be created by any blogger who surrounds themselves with others who are willing to lend advice and contribute to their ventures.

b. Psychic: This principle is harder to comprehend, but Hill says: “No two minds ever come together without, thereby, creating a third, invisible, intangible force which may be likened to a third mind.” When a group of individuals combine for a definite purpose, their increased energy becomes available to everyone that is a part of that group. When the minds of compatible bloggers connect in harmony, the sky’s the limit!

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Master Minds: Star St. Germain, Dave Allen and Gala Darling

Choosing your group of Master Minds is of great importance, so do so carefully and with much consideration. I’m lucky that mine formed very organically. My three blogging Master Minds are:

1. Star St. Germain: I have this blog thanks to Star! When we met up in LA during the summer of 2007, she encouraged me to trade in my standard website for a blog. I wasn’t so sure that it was a good idea to be so public about what I was doing. Don’t some of the best graphic designers retain a bit of mystery?! But, when it comes to online trends, Star is usually right on. I’m so glad that I took her advice. It pays to have tech-savvy friends!

2. Dave Allen: When I first started interning at Nemo in the fall of 2007, one of my school assignments was to interview someone in the design industry. I knew that Dave ran a popular blog and since mine was fairly new, it made sense to get some tips and feedback. That initial interview taught me a lot (Dave knows a ton about technology and social media) and eventually, I began writing for one of the Nemo blogs, Social Cache. Blogging is now a part of my job, thanks to Dave!

3. Gala Darling: Gala loves blogging (it’s her full-time job) and she’s a Virgo (major extra bonus points). It’s nice to have a friend who’s just as comfortable attending blogging conventions as she is cruising through the Balenciaga boutique. We travel well together and she always answers my barrage of blogging-related questions. Blogging soul mates? Most likely!

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Do you already have a group of Master Minds that are helping you to reach your blogging goals? In a perfect world, who would you add to your group?