Heads-up: This is not going to be a typical outfit post because this week has been a tough one for so many of you, for me and for the world. Over the weekend, I was hopeful and still on a post-Designer Vaca creative high. Then, Tuesday night happened and thereâ€™s a lot on my mind.
I had so much faith that we were better together, only to wake up the next morning feeling sick but knowing I had to show up to work. A tweet I came across on 11/9, the day after the election said, â€œWWMOD? (What would Michelle Obama Do?) Sheâ€™d get up, Sheâ€™d get dressed. Sheâ€™d go high. And hug someone.â€ I love that so much.
Weâ€™re all entitled to our personal beliefs and we should exercise them every four years. I take voting very seriously but it took a wake-up call to get me there. Back in the Fall of 2000, Iâ€™d just started college. I was old enough to vote that time around but did not. I remember my writing teacher saying, â€œIf you didnâ€™t vote in this election, you canâ€™t complain about the outcome.â€ I registered to vote after that.
Iâ€™ve always lived in a liberal pocket of the country and Iâ€™m aware it is a bubble. Right now, I know that somehow Iâ€™ll be okay but I feel afraid, scared and anxious about changes that could effect people of color, the disabled and the GLBTQ community. At the same time, this is an opportunity to fight harder for them and donate money and creative services to causes that support active change.
During these uncertain times, I choose to believe in love, compassion and creativity. I choose to believe that we can all make a difference for good. I also know that when things donâ€™t go our way, anger and grieving are normal. And then, itâ€™s time to get to work. As Tina Fey says, â€œIâ€™m unstoppable because I donâ€™t know how to stop.â€
Iâ€™ve never been overly political in this space because I believe we each have the right to our views but change wonâ€™t happen if we sit here silently. This is the time to speak up.
When I took these photos while out exploring Palm Springs with Joey last week, the world felt lighter. We drove past this wall of flowers growing through a chainlink fence and I fell in love with scenery. Right now, like many of you, Iâ€™m holding onto those small moments of beauty, knowing that there are many if you take the time to look around you.
I also want to say that as a creative, whether youâ€™re a designer, artist, photographer, writer, shop owner, bloggerâ€¦.whatever you do, know that your work has meaning, what you do has significance. Use your talents to make a difference. Youâ€™re never alone â€”Â I believe in you.