Link Love: 7.19.12

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Source: Re-Do it Design


• The Nextness is onto something in Should you go your own way? when it proclaims, “One of the most common features in the blogosphere is the “How to. Ten tips to… 5 steps towards… The best advice I… How I got to where I am.” So true. It makes you wonder if the real reason we keep hanging on all these words of advice is because we don’t have the fearlessness to follow through with our own vision.

• Don’t expect your dreams to come true overnight. You’ve gotta put in the hard work first and get your hands dirty. That’s truly part of the adventure.

• Great insights on perfectionism and learning how to do nothing.

• Designers, what do you do when you send out a project estimate and a client no longer wants to hire you? I always say, stand your ground. You (and your work) are worth it!

• An unlikely pairing but way awesome: Bon Appétit interviews Rick Ross about food.

• A List Apart has just put together a Summer Reading Issue.

• Photographer Bonnie Tsang ate her way through Portland’s culinary hotspots and snapped her meals along the way. I still need to visit quite a few of these in my fair city!

• This article claims that it’s harder making friends as an adult. “As people approach midlife, the days of youthful exploration, when life felt like one big blind date, are fading. Schedules compress, priorities change and people often become pickier in what they want in their friends.” Agree?

• Learn how to say no like a boss.

• Pantone luggage?! Yes, it exists. Crossing my fingers it eventually arrives on U.S. shores!

7 Responses to Link Love: 7.19.12

  1. Alex says:

    “It makes you wonder if the real reason we keep hanging on all these words of advice is because we don’t have the fearlessness to follow through with our own vision. ”

    I couldn’t agree more.

    Also, “I ain’t gonna lie: I love that cheese.” is without a doubt my new catchall phrase. Thanks, Rick Ross (and Nubby!)!

  2. Melinda says:

    You know Nubby, that article about are we pickier about friends as we get older rang very true to me. My Fiance and I (I GOT ENGAGED OVER THE WEEKEND!!!) were talking about that a week or two back.

    We started our relationship five years ago with friends who loved to club and party and drink everyday, even when they had their son. We decided not to end our friendship, but move our way out of their lives as we grew with him starting his body shop and my teaching. Then we had some other friends who were like minded like us, but started getting really radically political and we did the same thing. Now we have our current friends and those who have stayed with us for a while. Each resepct the other’s personalitys and points of view eventhough we all differ. While we are still in contact with those people we’ve left behind, the both of us came to the conclusion that we’ve been trying to find people that didn’t make us uncomfortable or had a laidback lifestyle like we do.

    To answer that question from my perspective, yes, we are getting pickier as we get older. Sometimes I feel like I’m a kid compared to my other 28-29 year old friends because I’m not married or have children (don’t want any unless you count my cat and ferret), but at the same time, I feel more mature than the other half of my friends because I don’t want to party 24/7 or club every weekend. Its strange, I guess from my experience as a teacher, as we were young in our teens, we wanted to rebel do things our parents didn’t like or explore our horizons, as a twenty something, we wanted to find ourselves and who we really are as a person, and at your late twenties to early thirties we want to be around people we feel comfortable with, no drama from your teens or twenties, just people who you can be comfortable with. My 2 cents I guess. :)

    Melinda

    • Nubby says:

      Melinda: Thanks for your great insights as always but more importantly, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! So exciting! Things are really coming together for you in quite a cosmic way this year! I love it when everything turns around for the good for truly great, inspiring people. I am so happy for you. Live it up!

  3. Ana says:

    For me, the appeal of all the How-To articles isn’t about fear of going my own way. It’s rather about being brave enough to do it, but not having ideas on how to do it.
    I know my strengths, but one of them isn’t being an idea-person.

    The problem might be taking those list as the way to do things.
    Read them, be inspired, choose, mix and match and make your own.

    [The article seems to steer in the direction of viewing advice offered as very specific thing ("draw a dog: purple hair, three antennae. price it at X amount, no more, no less.") - and I see why people would be reluctant to offer and follow it, it would be too close to copying - while I view it as a general suggestion ("draw something that appeals to you. stand your ground when it comes to pricing").]

    And there is a lot to learning from predecessors’ experiences.

    Hah, that friendship article…
    I’ve always been like that with friends, ever since I was a child.

    Proximity friends and pretty compartmentalized: a friend for parties, a friend for picnics, a friend for science, a friend for being silly with, and I love them all.
    No big (or small) groups bound together by a lot of shared interests.
    No intense one-on-one bonds (tried it, it ended in heartbreak for me each time).

    For me it’s not an age thing, it’s just… me :) .

    • Nubby says:

      Bonnie Tsang! You’re so welcome! I’m a HUGE fan of your photography and so many of these places I’ve never set foot into (which is terrible to admit!) so thank you for inspiring me to try new things.

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