Monthly Archives: June 2008

What I Wore: 6.21.08

 

  

I was going for a 60s stewardess look yesterday. I just got my hair trimmed and I always beg my hairdresser to give me a bouffant, but my hair is so stick straight that no amount of back combing and hairspray can keep the ‘hive up!

Saint-Tropez shirt, Urban Outfitters
Navy wool skirt, Banana Republic (my aunt’s friend was cleaning out her closet and gave this to me. It’s mid-90s era and wraps around and fastens with a little attached belt.)
Scarf (in hair), vintage
Tights, DKNY (They’re metallic silver with pinstripes!)
Heeled oxfords, ZINDA (Italy)
Purse, Miu Miu
Watch, Target

 




  

Black & White Graphic Insight Art Show

The Nubbytwiglet.com 2008 solo show for Black & White Graphic Insight will be here. On July 1st I’ll have availability and more information to post! (Also, you can see an enlarged version of the flyer here).

Some background information on the series:

The Black & White Graphic Insight series is an ode to my love of graphic design. Stark lines and a heavy mix of a mostly black and white palette are a bold contrast to the natural wood and ceramic surfaces that the designs are collaged onto.The pieces are growing more organic and free in form, yet still retain a slickness when coated in epoxy resin.

The largest and most complex series yet, Black & White Graphic Insight aims to spark a newfound appreciation for collage as a fine art form.




The Week in Pictures: 6/20/08

week in pictures nubby twiglet typography

This week, I’ve been enjoying the sun (it’s finally here!), working on some behind the scenes projects (Nubbytwiglet.com PDF portfolio, art show flyer design), quickly filling up my freelance calelendar(!), and enjoying spending five days a week at Nemo, where the fun never ends!


Last Friday, I hung out with a bunch of the Nemo boys on the front steps. It’s always funny when cars take the time to honk at us! Maybe I’ll wave next time…


This was the view from the bus as we sped across one of many Portland’s bridges towards S.E. Portland. Portland has the longest, grayest winters, but this is the payoff!


I’ve decided to bring stirrups back! They look so modern with cut-out shoes and stay down way better than leggings. These are by Hue and are more like tights.


My work desk got a few new friends and decorations (hello, Rody and Treeson)!


Haha, the waffle shot has officially become a weekly occurrence! My friend Erin and I have a weekly lunch date now to catch up. Awwww.


This piece of art is super crazy and layered; I can’t wait to finish it up!

How was your week?




Link Love: 6.19.08

1. The five most common mistakes of female freelancers is only true if you let it be.

2. This youtube video of Marilyn Manson talking about Michael Jackson is like a dream come true. I love it when two of my favorite celebrities’ worlds collide!

3. On Social Media Blogs and Advertising is a brilliant article by fellow Nemo-ite Dave Allen about the validity and future of social networking. Tune into Social Cache; we have much more to come on this subject!

4. These Hansel From Basel socks are tempting me at the moment: 

 

5. Casey-Scott discussesThe Desire To Be Different and uses my article about stuff defining who you are as a jumping point. He writes, “(This) really made me question whether I’ve bought into not so much a trend, so much as a certain demographic. I identified a culture and a branding that attracted me, and worked towards being a part of that.” Really thoughtfully written and worth a read!

6. In Shop Girl: Career Advice for Creatives, Holly of the hugely popular design blog decor8 shares her inspiring personal story of how she escaped corporate America and eased into running her own business.




It’s Not About Them, It’s About You: How To Keep A Positive Perspective in Your Life

It’s easy to get caught up in what other people have, what they’re doing, who they know, what they’re wearing, what they look like and what’s being said about them. But, as you’ve no doubt already figured out, comparing yourself to others will get you nowhere.

Because of our fast-paced, instant access lifestyles filled with celebrity gossip blogs and social networking sites, it can sometimes appear that so-and-so has the perfect lifestyle and they must be doing better than ourselves. But, even if they are hugely successful, why should any of this really matter?

Jealousy and Scarcity

The feeling of scarcity (unlimited wants coupled with limited resources) arises when you stop focusing on what you presently have and start yearning for everything you don’t have. It’s a game you can’t win.

Steve Pavlina says:

Jealousy is a very ego-based notion. If you want to feel jealous, you must first adopt a scarcity mindset that suggests we’re in competition with each other. Reality must be reduced to your ego vs. other people. If someone gets that great job, that wonderful girlfriend, or that new house, it means you can’t have it. They won. You lost.

If you really think about it, there’s always more room at the top because each of us has a unique perspective. Nothing can be carried out in the same way twice so it’s entirely possible to put your own spin on an idea. If you see someone succeeding at the same thing you want to do, view it as a triumph because now you know it’s possible. And, if you have great manners and offer something in return, the odds are that they may be willing to provide tips and advice.

(Most) Success Is Due To Hard Work

Sometimes we only see the end results of what people have accomplished and forget about the hard work that it took to get to that point. A celebrity probably has a team of managers, publicists and assistants plugging them to the media at all times. A famous blogger probably does just that full-time and has been chipping away at the keyboard for years. A well-known artist may have spent ages couch surfing and squeaking into group shows before they got their big break. There’s a good chance that someone with a fantastic job had plenty of undesirable ones during the years prior and spent many long nights at the office.

Gala Darling brilliantly writes:

Other people’s lives are none of our business, regardless of who they are — celebrities, internet personalities, artists or shop assistants. We are all entitled to live the way we want to without having to constantly explain ourselves.

To dwell on what others have and then pry into their personal business in a negative manner is a bad reflection on yourself. It really isn’t about them, it’s about you. A few things have been bothering me as of late and I was just given the advice that it’s better to embrace these feelings and to think about what’s driving them than to bury them because I feel guilty for thinking badly about someone.

Usually, these feelings are driven by a lack of focus and uncertainty in your own life. This is natural. It’s up to you to work through these feelings, not to project them negatively onto another person.

Fight Negativity, Embrace Your Strengths

Napoleon Hill says:

The subconscious mind makes no distinction between constructive and destructive thought impulses. It works with the material we feed it through our thought impulses. The subconcious mind will translate into reality a thought driven by fear just as readily as it will translate into reality a thought driven by courage, faith.

The easiest cure-all for negative feelings is to throw yourself into something you love, something you feel really passionate about.

For me, when I’m designing, making fine art or blogging, I am at my most fulfilled because none of these things feel like work to me. Granted, my everyday life isn’t anything that would be considered spectacular. Most days are filled with waking up early, answering a few emails, picking out an outfit that I feel excited about and rushing out the door to catch the bus to work. After putting in my hours (I’m lucky to have a job I love), I usually come straight home most nights to do some more work and spend some time with Lee. If I get too tired, I take a nap, wake up in the middle of the night to do some more work, then go back to bed. The reason I keep wacky hours is because this is what it takes to keep up with what I love to do.

Any success I’ve achieved at this point has been about 80% hard work and 20% luck. The term luck should be used loosely because that only tends to come into play once you’ve already done the legwork to get noticed, whether that be recording your demo, putting together a press kit, developing a portfolio, etc.

Positive Momentum and Moving Forward

To keep momentum, I try view everything as an adventure, as a little excuse to have fun. Even if I’m just taking a mid-day walk to a coffee shop, I pack along my camera and try to take the world in around me.

It’s also important to have an end result in mind for what you’re doing. Even if you’re working a menial office or retail job (yes, we’ve all been there!) it helps if you have hobbies outside of work that you love. Also, keep your eye on the target; have an end date in mind. Maybe set a goal to save a few thousand dollars set aside (little by little out of each paycheck) so that you can travel or follow a dream when this milestone is passed. Having a payoff will make those dreadfully long days fly by as you inch closer to your dream.

Years ago when I lived in the suburbs, worked at the mall during the week and went to college classes on the weekend (it was a pretty miserable existence!), my goal was to save up enough money to quit my job and travel. Unexpectedly, during the winter of 2004, I was offered a chance to go on tour with Lee’s band and because I’d prepared myself, I was able to quit my job and tour the U.S. for six weeks without worrying about money. The payoff was totally worth the year of annoying customers I’d put up with! Traveling freely and meeting tons of inspiring people along the way really opened my mind up to the possibilities beyond my little, regimented world!

It’s Not About Me, It’s About You

This isn’t supposed to be all about me; it’s about you. It doesn’t matter where you are now. It’s where you’re going. If you have a steadfast plan that you’re inching towards every day, you’ll eventually make it. Slowly but surely, things somehow always manage to come together if you keep a positive outlook. And if you stay focused on that dream while putting in the work to achieve it, there’s nothing stopping you.